Oh, finally we could sleep LONG!!!! Man, it was so needed!!
Nemo woke up earlier, climbed into my bed and was lying sleeping for hours on my arm;=) So nice and perfect saturday morning;=)
Now time to get ready to take Seth to his football practise and me and Nemo are heading for IKEA and the big mall, Väla. Will be crowded but I want to see some people today;=)
Enjoy your saturday and have fun!
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Hi, Anette!
ReplyDeleteYeah, long sleep it is a very good thing. Ha-ha=) Have a nice day today=)
Are you have a good weather?
With Love,
Tanya=)
Wow, the Nemo climbing into your bed part had my heart melting inside! So sweet!
ReplyDeleteHave a wonderful Saturday! Hugs and much love!
Hi Anette,
ReplyDeleteI need to write to You cause I feel that You can help me a little because You know how it is to be away from the ones You love.
So today early in the morning my boyfriend get down to London to work because he didn't pass his exam on studies so he can't stay at this university. He decided to go there about month ago and when he told me that I cried a lot. Maybe it's not the end of the world but still about 1600km! (I live in south Poland) And I feel that it will be hard, we are together over 2 years and seeing each other over 3. And over 3 years we everynight no matter of hour be on call. But now only skype and I know that probably in this house where he will stay internet is very bad. And the hardest thing in this situation is the plan that he will be back in June (no Christmas, no New Year's Eve etc), of course I will go to London in February for week or two but sooner it's almost impossible.
And now when I told some of my friends about this situation almost everyone told me that it will be hard and that "You know how stories like that almost always ends". So no, they are not comforting me. Anette You know how it is so tell me please it will make our relationship stronger and almost indestructible or it will be balancing on very thin ice?
Hugs and kisses, Sabina :)
Dear Sabina,
DeleteHope you dont mind my reading your story as it really touched my heart...
Poor you!!! I'm SO sorry!
I don't know all circumstances, but I excatly know that I would go mad in such situation! It's really difficult for me, too, to be away from my husband even for about 1 week and no Skype can save me, to cure my thoughts!!!
I think that you and your friend should have talked very seriuosly about his situation in the university and about his leaving, and maybe TOGETHER tried to find another way. It's really bad if your boyfriend said he would go and nothing couldn't change his opinion.You should have discussed it together! Maybe he wanted to go to London more than to stay with you...i don't know.
If what he did is the only way, so courage, dear!!
All in all, I believe, that he could study hard and pass his exams and stay with you! It seems that he didn't think about your love..
Sorry for my interffering and sorry that I'm wrong in my words. I'm waiting what Anette will advice you.
Best wishes
Hello Sabina, just like Serafim said too, I'm sorry to burst into your comment like this and I hope you don't find it as offensive or bothersome, but I just wanted to give you my story and opinion.
DeleteA couple of years ago, I had this internet story with a guy from Norway, myself being in Italy. We had never met, and we never met to this day even, so it's a bit different of your story with your boyfriend, but I wanna tell you that between this boy here and me, there really was a very tight and special friendship. We would talk everyday and would "daydream" about getting to know each other and maybe even more one day and we really shared all of our joys and sorrows every day. Even now, after three years that we've started talking, we're still really good friends, a lot of respect and affection between us, as much as internet allows and I think that if we actually had the chance to be together physically too, we might actually fall in love with each other. I also had a story with an ex-boyfriend of mine when we didn't see each other for 4 months at all and everything went super-smoothly and we were together for another year after that. And later one, we had only been apart for two weeks, that he fell in love with someone else, so it's not always the amount of time that matters most ;-) So from my point of view, I really think you should be optimistic and hang in there till June! It's not so long afterall! And if there IS real love between the two of you, I'm sure you'll make it.
One of my best friends is also in a similar situation, she studies here and, after four years of relationship, her boyfriend went to study abroad in Belgium. Last year he did an Erasmus project of 6 months there, they only saw each other once, and now they'll be apart for another year and will see each other for Christmas only. But they're so much in love with each other and their relationship is so strong, that my friend, her fiancee and aaaall of us who are their friends, are 100% sure that it will only make them get stronger as a couple!!
I'm wishing you all the best now, and remember: never allow yourself to grow scared, jealous or paranoic or, on the opposite side, careless! Just be honest and communicate with your boyfriend as openly as possible, cause that's really, really important! A big hug and don't let any thoughts grind you down! ;-)
Wow! My dear ones thank You both for really warm words.
Delete@Serafim: I have to admitt You that we didn't disscus it, it was his decision but to be honest yes I cried, I yelled but we both agree that another option is hard to imagine. He has not so good situation at home to stay there for this 8 months and work in our domestic town and to stay and work where I studied is also not so good idea cause he has to pay for renting room etc and he really don't want to take money from his parents. Oh, and also working in London will give him some experience not only backgrounds but experience in life. I have to add that two years ago we were studying in two diffrent cities and seeing each other once a month and we survive this so maybe there is a hope. But Serafim he is in London already so there is nothing which we can change.
@Elmas: What a beautifull story! But don't worry, I will not be jealous etc cause I feel like that this kind of situation with cheating can't break us and I know how much we trust each other. But maybe I'm too optimistic ;) I'm only really afraid how it will be to go to sleep everynight without talking to him. Because that thing was always with us.
And I know that already he hasn't internet in his house, he can only borrow some device from one of friend or go to McDonald's.
So really tricky situation but I know that if it doesn't kill us it make us so strong like never before.
Now I understand everything. Thanks! Then, if nothing can change, you need courage, support him and see what will be in the future ;-) I hope everything will be fine!
DeleteI live in Ukraine, in the Crimea. After leaving school I was offered to study at the university in Russia, in Petrozavodsk (it's city near Finnland), but I refused this suggestion and stay with my boyfriend in Ukraine. Now we live together and I study in the long distance course in Kyiv (I went to the university only several times per year to pass my exams). I'm happy now=) I 'm glad that I made such decision ;=)
It's my story =) I think the main is to be happy! If you are happy, you will give happiness to other people, too )
Yes, tricky situation! but you're right - "if it doesn't kill us, it makes us stromger".
Best wishes,
Margarita
Margarita I'm only hoping that he will come back to me soon or even in June but I hope that he will not decide to stay there for another year!
DeleteTo be honest I wish him the best of course but I hope that he wont find a job (I heard it's tough now to find good job in London and earn so much money to be able to lay away some)and come back in month or two. We will se but I'm trying to be optimistic. Thank You soo much for Your kind words it really gives me strong and power now :)
ahww, that sounds so cute. Like every weekend I woke up at 8.30 even I could sleep longer. But I was to lazy to get up so I just laying in my bed starring in the air and thinking about this and that. I go with some friend into the next city and I have to buy a stuffed animal for the newborn brother of my best friend ( She was really shocked to get big sister with 18 years) so that will be my mission today. enjoy your day :)
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Hi, Anette:) you're a happy person! but I couldn't sleep long:( I had to wake up at 6am to go to university:(
ReplyDeletehave a nice weekend:)
Happy Saturday, Anette.
ReplyDeleteGood you`re had a relaxed morning. Would love to have it at least once that my son sleeps long. He always wakes up very early at the weekends (not at normal days when he has to get up early because of school). ;)
Have a nice time today. I just want to ask you something: how is it possible for you to walk around in public without being followed by the press for example?! I have no idea how it is in Sweden but I think it`s not that different from other countries...! Do people recognize you when you go shopping? :) I don`t mean my question in a "bad" way....I just wonder about it because I can imagine that some people can totally freak out. :)
xx
Hi Anette,
ReplyDeleteIsn't it nice to get a nice long sleep. It's been a week where I managed about 3 hours each night but slept til 10 this morning.
I hope Seth enjoys football practice. One of my favourite players was Swedish, Henrik Larsson who played for the team I support a few years ago.
Enjoy your time at IKEA and the mall and I hope you find something nice for yourself. It's always good to see people and remember to keep smiling.
Have a great day!
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I don't like to paint my nails but these are fun!
Have a nice day!
Laetitianne.
Hello Anette.
ReplyDeleteIt's sad because you're gonna perform in first time without Nightwish, but its okay, this is your decision.
I got a new kittie yesterday. His name is Roope. It's a Finnish name. I love Roope, as you your children. Roope is black and white, and a little bit small. He cries, when I go somewhere and I leave him. It's sad, but Roope will relax in few minutes.
Today I have day off ;-) But this morning I woke up very early, because I forgot to turn off alarm clock, and it awakened me :-( But I think this Saturday will be a nice :-)
ReplyDeleteHave a nice and happy time with your children!
Sweet :) You're such a great mother! As a small child I also wanted to sleep in my mother's bed when I had terrible nightmares, but I wasn't always allowed to, when she had to go to work next day :D
ReplyDeleteWish you much fun in IKEA!
Good morning, Nettie =D.
ReplyDeleteGreat to know you had a wonderful night, I love sleeping for hours haha..I don't have the oportunity to do everyday in week, but when I can, I just do, is so comfortable *-*.
Hope you enjoy your saturday still and calm, like every saturday must be =).
Love, Carol
Good morning to you!It's so nice to read that you'll be spending your Saturday with your family.
ReplyDeleteHow did Nemo like it?I'm sure my little brother wouldn't be able to spend too much time in a place such as IKEA!
Hope your day goes well,
xx
Good afternoon Anette :-)
ReplyDeleteI know exactly what you mean when you mention having a long sleep as I have just come out of one myself. I've been in work everyday for the last 10 days and when I finished yesterday I was cream crackered ( my own rhyming slang for knackered ) :-) I'm back in on Monday.
When I was a child of Seth's age I used to love playing football. When I was about 9 years old in junior school I distinctly remember taking part in a special fund raising event for charity called dad's and lads soccer match. The event would comprise of two teams with boy's and their fathers all in the same team. I remember I was actually knocked out unconscious for a few seconds when I went sliding down the pitch and then someone smashed into me. My lights went out and for a very short time I was in nothingness. Luckily I was ok though :-) My grandfather played professionally for Brentford many years ago :-) Does Seth play for his school football team or does he just play for fun? :-) Maybe he'll be the future Zlatan Ibrahimovic :-) Whom I've heard is very very good :-)
Hope your trip IKEA and the big mall is sucessful and you find what you want :-)
Good afternoon, dear Anette. There are many nights that I don't know what is to sleep long and well. Today I am working at home (teachers working at school and at home when is weekend, specialy if is almost end of year). Anyway, let's go. Happy day to You and your children.
ReplyDeleteHey, dear Anette!
ReplyDeleteOh, sleeping in is so good... My Dad and me were alone this morning so we could sleep in, too.
Your wishes work ^^ The day was nice so far and will go on being nice ;-)
Have fun at IKEA and the mall, and enjoy your day!
Love, Betty
It sounds great! If I get kids when I grow up I would love it when they are lying om my arm sleeping! I would shure love it!
ReplyDeleteNow I'm making sushi with my dad! It tastes so nice!
xx
wish you a really good day with your children! ;=)
ReplyDeleteLots of love and laughter for you =)
Hello Anette,
ReplyDeleteGood Saturday to you
Ohhh so cute Nemo ....
Have a nice shopping day & good football Seth :)
Kiss
Love
hi Anette.
ReplyDeleteHow was your shopping and how Seth is goin'?
If you want to see people, I would invite you to Poland, 'cause we love you :D
Wow,sounds like a really good day for you,I hope it continues to go well. :-)
ReplyDeleteLove and hugs
Have an awesome day:)
ReplyDeleteOh yes so good to sleep long! I slept till 12! But with an alarm clock! So without i would probably be still sleeping! Ahah! Guess it was needed :)
ReplyDeleteHey you should live in Ikea! Ahah! I have to say I also love going there but theres no Ikea in my town, I have to drive around 2 hours to go to closest one! Quite bad! :/
Have you read Michael blog today? Johan was locked in the toilet! Ahah
Love and hugs!!
Hi Anette, hope you are enjoying your Saturday!
ReplyDeleteOver here in Israel, as you might have heard, we're not having such a peaceful Saturday. Very difficult and somber days... Sad to know that innocent people are suffering- on both sides of the conflict, and we really hope things will resolve soon.
I wanted to ask something that has nothing to do with what I wrote above. I saw in an interview with Tuomas that he is not going to discuss the reasons for the parting of ways between you and the band, any more than that had already been discussed in the press statement. I wanted to ask whether the public will ever know the reason, or if both sides have decided to be quiet about this forever.
Thank you, just wanted to know :) And please pray for peace in our area.
Wish you a great weekend.
ReplyDeletehugs and love
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ReplyDeleteHi Anette ^^ I ' m sure Nemo will have fun at IKEA ... :) I just came home from the Disney Store , and I bought seven balls of Nightmare Before Christmas for the Christmas tree ^^ I really like it :3
ReplyDeleteHi dear how are you?
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a good day today me yes ;-)
Good evening and sleep well
Love
Isa
Isa; Hi! I am ok, very tired but thats how life is sometimes,=) Hope you are just fine!
ReplyDeleteNightmarebeforesleep: Hi! I saw them when I got mine with Mickey and so on and they were really cool;=)
Dalma: Hej och GRATTIS;=) Superbra jobbat! Klart du får 5!!!
Gitte; Thanks and the same;=)
Rotem; Hi! I will pray for you all! I am so sorry about this conflict and I hope it will come to an end soon! Well, I am sure I will tell one day about my years in NW;=) But exactly when I haven't decided yet;=) Take care!
Océane; Hi! Great that you slept long;=) And we actually didn't make it to IKEA, only the mall so need to go there this week. Need some new candles;=) and yeah, Johan told me and well, they are quite immature those guys... Enjoy this day!
Rivka; Thanks and the same to you!
Brianna; Hi! It did,=) Enjoy this day!
Robermifernes: Hi and thanks;=) Poland is great! And yeah, we had a super nice day;=)
Mél: thanks and the same to you,=)
Serafim, thanks so much;=) The same to you!
Sabine; Hi! Oh, sushi! I love that;=) Hope it tasted super good! And yeah, having your children in your arms is just the best feeling in the world!
Betty; Great to hear the day was good;=)
Arthur; Hi! Hope you got some sleep and a good day of working at home;=)
Tom: Hi! Well, if Seth´s dream comes true he will be a professional football player and maybe a star like Zlatan;=) Dreams are good to have! And they don't have school teams here like in USA, so he plays in a team here in Helsingborg;=)
Thank you, it means so much! Today on the news they said both sides might sign a cease-fire agreement, so we are hoping and praying for the best :)
Deleteok you rest well ;-)
DeleteI'm fine thanks ;-)
love
isa
The dead unicorn; Hi! We only did the big mall so IKEA have to wait. But in IKEA I always let Nemo play around in the kids area, there are fun little things to play with so then he´s ok being there,=)
ReplyDeleteCarol: Hi and thanks, it was quite a busy saturday but I rested yesterday instead;=)
Daniel: Hi! Yeah, I think its good that the children know they can come and have the safe place after a nightmare;=)
Alina; Oh no, I hate when that happens;=( Hope you got some rest still during the day!
Antti: Hi! Cute name on your kitten;=)
Laetitianne; Hi! I am going to pick my package up today with this nail polish and paint them asap;=)
Martin; Hi! Well, 3 hours per night is not enough;=( And Henke comes from Helsingborg and he lives in a big nice house here;=) A great player and a great person!
Nora: Hi! I am blessed that NW isn't so famous here in Sweden and we also doesn't have the same paparazzi's as other countries. Thats why I love living here;=)
Julia; Oh, poor you;=( Hope you get more sleep in the coming week!
Saskia: Hi! Nice that you're seeing the baby;=)
Sabina; Hi and I am so sorry that you both have to deal with such a long time apart from each other. It will be hard, for sure, but I am not so negative as your friends, since I believe that if its true love from both of you, you´ll make it;=) When me and Johan are away, its truly hard, and we miss each other deeply. Its like I am a half person when he´s away. But still, its also important to support each others lives and what we want to do in life and try and be happy for each other. And your boyfriend need this education and that is why you have to try and support it and also cope. I have always tried to do things I don't have time or need to do when Johan is at home so maybe you can do a new hobby, a new sport or something so you don't constantly think of being sad and alone? And of course you can call each other, go and see each other and talk via Skype. We have better possibilities today than just some days ago;=) I send strengthening hugs to you and I am sure you both will make it perfectly;=) Love conquers all!
Elmas: yeah, its just so wonderful when he does that;=)
ReplyDeleteTanya; Thanks and the same;=) And no, its been so grey all weekend;=( But today the sun is shining!
Hi and thanks for the answer.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately I havent seen the baby yet, because he have to stay some time in the hospital because he came to early. So I couldnt give him the little stuffed bat yet.
( here is a link: http://bilder.nici-markt.de/34178_1.jpg)
But I hope to see the little Eric soon as possible.
hugs saskia