I really hope Karma will hit some people really soon!
Ohh really sad news here in the netherlands and news that makes me angry!! A young boy was a witness of the dead of his best friend. His best friend died in his arms. He was really emotional because of this, and then the bullying start at his school.. Other children bullied him because of this and said really hard things like; glad you're best friend is dead. And other horrible things like that. One day it was enough for him and he yelled in the class that it was enough and they need to stop!! And now... he has to leave the school because he react to agressive... How unfair is this?? God, really this makes me so angry!!
That kid is having a trauma because of his friend en now a trauma because of bullying.. really, in what kind of world we're living in?? To be honest.. this is the reason why I don't want any children.. the world is fucked up and I don;t want any kid to grow up in this world!
It makes me so angry.. Well, but at least you've a good thing, the 2 songs you're gonna perform soon ;) !! Wish you all the luck!
yes, cause "what goes around comes around" like one boomerang it will come back to you, as you always say to us "be nice to each other" that's why I wish you all the best to you Anette and all the people of this webpage. :)
Well, it's a very good appeal, although I dislike her, because she interferes in politics a lot... I love the way Megan Fox says about bulling http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fdW5-gTsuY
Karma is out to get all the bullies! Yay all the people who have pissed me off will suffer and I don't even have to lift a finger. Thank u 4 posting such good messages/quotes...U r awesome! Have a good day:)
Today I read an article about cyber bullying here in Belgium. They said that most of the people don't testify it to their parents/principal, teachter/police/boss etc. I saw the results of a research that the university of Antwerp did and it's horrible!
Yeah I hope all of this is true ! My wish is all the person who bullied me years ago to see me in a few months after the surgery! And THAT will be my revenge! At least I'm soft in my revenge. Not like them. It also proof I'm better than them I guess.
Ahh,my baby!There are a lot of quotes from her I'm sure you'd love,because she's just as concerned as you about a lot of social problems and so on.I'm very happy you seem to appreciate her,too!She's been my hero for almost five years now,and seeing someone I adore,such as you,appreciating her words makes me feel all fuzzy inside. Hope your day's going well! xx
I love the way that Laady gaga speak about bullying! She is really a shine person that brings hope to a lote of hearts, even thought it may seems freak from a lot of people.. But I hate the way that a lot of fans from her famdom doing bullying with fandom from others singers and the singers... There are stupid people everywhere, even in a place where everybody hear messages of love and respect...
Have a nice week Anette and hope your family is ok :)
If I'm reading what you wrote correctly, those people can't really be fans. I think those "fans" are just people who like her because she is so popular. If you're more popular, it's more likely that bad people notice you too.
Lucas; Hi! I don't know her fans so I can't say what I think about it, but she is a good example and talking about bullying and also about the body issues.
The dead unicorn; Hi! Yeah, I really like her and what she´s doing. She also appreciates her fans which is so nice;=)
Océane: Haha, it doesn't matter what they think, you know you are beautiful with or without any surgery;=)
Oona; Hi! yeah, I´ve read these things too and its really bad, cause the only way parents can help is if we know how our kids are treated. So I hope it changes!
The lost seafarer: Yeah, she is a great inspiration;=)
Rivka: Haha, yeah, its true, it will happen;=)
Rest calm: Everyone who stand up against bullying does a great job so good that Megan does it too;=)
Beto: Thanks;=) And yes, it will come back and even if it doesn't, we know we have lived here on this earth trying to be nice to others.
Danielle: what a crazy story! I don't understand how he can be bullied for that? Well, people are just plain evil and stupid and its so sad! And yes, I always thought like you do, that I never wanted to get any children into this world and it is frightening to send your kids out into the world knowing all the evilness and stuff going on. But at the same time, we can't give in to evilness. We need to fight it and believe in goodness, even if its hard. And karma, if it works or not, is a good way to move on and hope for better days.
I've read th story Danielle wrote about as well. It's such a sick story. That boy was very sad because he and his friend were in an accident and his friend died in his arms. His classmates told him all the time they were happy his friend died and did plays in the classroom. I can imagine you'll react depressive and angry about this. School claims they made enough efforts to stop the bullying but he has to leave school. This is college btw. Hell, what people do live in Holland? I'm very ashamed.
Hi Anette, this is the artikel Danielle wrote about. I've used google translate in Swedish so hopefully it's well written.
Posted 21/11/2012 kl 08:25 Fries pesten drama efter döden vän Michi
Fries pesten drama efter döden vän Michi Frisiska elev desperat hem efter fruktansvärda mobbning incidenter. Klasskamrater trakassera honom om trafikolycka av hans bästa vän.
Livslängden på 14-åriga skolpojke frisiska Roy och hans föräldrar hotade att bryta ner effekterna av grymma mobbning i skolan. Pojken kan inte gå tillbaka till sin gamla Havo klass eftersom han skulle ha reagerat känslomässigt till klasskamrater som ständigt trakasseras honom med döden av hans bästa vän Michi (12). Han dog förra året efter en trafikolycka i Roy armar.
"Istället för skolan om den här killen otröstlig synd och korrigerar mobbare, de hittar Roy och speciellt hans mor mycket hårt", säger Els Hendrikse stiftelsen Safe Education. Det fungerar som en medlare för familjen: "Hans skola vill ha honom konstigt kallas" en rättvis chans "erbjudande på en skola i Drachten, men inte i sin vanliga skola i sin hemstad Leeuwarden." Mamman till de traumatiserade Havo eleverna enligt Els Hendrikse nu genom sin arbetsgivare - det obligatoriska utbildningsavdelning i kommunen Leeuwarden - rekommenderas att inte tala om fallet. "Hon är överspända hem och känner olycklig att de inte kan prata om det här problemet, observera att den egna organ inblandade."
Barndomsvän Michi kraschade på September 20, 2011 i Leeuwarden. Han och Roy satt på en cykel när de är på bron Idzerda STINS greps av en passagerare som oväntat kom över backen. Roy: "Det var en kaotisk situation. Det manageress hade oss sent. Michi fick hela bilen över honom, jag hjul på benen. "
Pojken berättar hur han kröp till offret och hans blödande sår i huvudet, försöker pålitligt. "Jag älskade Michi hand tills han dog. Den enda sak jag har hört honom kalla mitt namn var "Roy" "Efter att ha förlorat Roy själv på gatan medvetandet.
Begravning Annonser vittnen till dramat. Den medkänsla som visas i tidningen från Piter Jelles (nu Leeuwarder Lyceum), skola Michi och Roy, drag. "Om vad som följde strax efter tyst de föredrar", sade Els Hendrikse. "Bra att han är död. Om han bara hade bättre ta en titt. "Den här typen av synpunkter Roy strax efter begravningen av Michi slungade.
"Roy var i grundskolan redan vid hans hud mobbade (hans mor var född i Surinam, hans far i Marocko, ed), men något dåligt de hade aldrig kallas," sade hans advokat utbildning Katinka Slump. På gymnasiet minskat incidenter, men efter olyckan drabbade stämningen plötsligt. Med flämtar Roy förklarar hur klasskamrater en dag i närvaro av sin lärare även spelar var ökar, med våndan av Michi härmade. Roys desperat "fan, mössa här med dig!" Innebar dock hans omedelbara avlägsnande från klassrummet och sätta en utdragen konflikt i rörelse.
Styrelsens sekreterare Herman Kramer i Leeuwarder Lyceum säga sekretesskäl att sakfrågan att fortsätta. "Vi kan inga rapporter om studiedokumentation gör. Jo jag kan säga att i det här fallet inte ske över en natt och har gått här har fungerat så noggrant som möjligt. "Peter fest
Namnen på de inblandade är fiktiva av sekretesskäl.
Ooh thanks you so much Anette :') But for myself I do need that surgery, when you hate yourself, you cant have a look in the mirror and you forbid yourself to do differents things, then you have to do something! :) I know many people are against surgery and think that "just a diet" is enough... But in my case, its not! :)
Anette, I'm going to be completely honest with you in regards to my past in bullying. Yes, I was bullied too as a child, but in turn I bullied some kids as well. Here's the problem though, I didn't know I bullied them. Sounds strange, doesn't it? Well, let me explain. Growing up, my mother was extremely blunt with me. She would tell me right in my face that I was stupid, ugly, etc. Her excuse was that it's simply the truth. So growing up, I thought that was okay to tell others the same thing since that's how I was raised. I would be blunt to people, and then wonder why they would start crying. I didn't understand why I hurt their feelings if this is how my mother raised me.
The moment I realized the way I was being raised was wrong was when I met my best friend. It all started when I called a young boy in middle school too short. He didn't say anything, but my best friend was there and scolded me for saying that. Believe it or not, my best friend taught me things that my mother never did. I changed as a person and never again would I say such mean things to someone. In high school, whenever I saw someone get bullied, I intervened. I can't just sit back and watch.
Even to this day, my mother would go up to her own friend and tell them, "Hey, you've gotten so much fatter!" I don't even think she realizes how destructive her words are.
Remember, people, if you ever do see someone get bullied (even to yourself) confront that person! Don't let it happen. Even if they're unaware of what they're doing like I was in the past, say something anyway. One person can make a difference.
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Dear Anette,
ReplyDeleteI really hope Karma will hit some people really soon!
Ohh really sad news here in the netherlands and news that makes me angry!!
A young boy was a witness of the dead of his best friend. His best friend died in his arms. He was really emotional because of this, and then the bullying start at his school.. Other children bullied him because of this and said really hard things like; glad you're best friend is dead. And other horrible things like that.
One day it was enough for him and he yelled in the class that it was enough and they need to stop!!
And now... he has to leave the school because he react to agressive...
How unfair is this?? God, really this makes me so angry!!
That kid is having a trauma because of his friend en now a trauma because of bullying.. really, in what kind of world we're living in?? To be honest.. this is the reason why I don't want any children.. the world is fucked up and I don;t want any kid to grow up in this world!
It makes me so angry..
Well, but at least you've a good thing, the 2 songs you're gonna perform soon ;) !! Wish you all the luck!
Hugs, Danielle
yes, cause "what goes around comes around" like one boomerang it will come back to you, as you always say to us "be nice to each other" that's why I wish you all the best to you Anette and all the people of this webpage. :)
ReplyDeleteWell, it's a very good appeal, although I dislike her, because she interferes in politics a lot...
ReplyDeleteI love the way Megan Fox says about bulling http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fdW5-gTsuY
Karma is out to get all the bullies! Yay all the people who have pissed me off will suffer and I don't even have to lift a finger. Thank u 4 posting such good messages/quotes...U r awesome! Have a good day:)
ReplyDeleteHaha, alhtough I don't really care for her music, I find Lady Gaga and her "Born this way" - movement to be a huge inspiration...
ReplyDeleteToday I read an article about cyber bullying here in Belgium. They said that most of the people don't testify it to their parents/principal, teachter/police/boss etc. I saw the results of a research that the university of Antwerp did and it's horrible!
ReplyDeleteYeah I hope all of this is true !
ReplyDeleteMy wish is all the person who bullied me years ago to see me in a few months after the surgery! And THAT will be my revenge! At least I'm soft in my revenge. Not like them. It also proof I'm better than them I guess.
Love & Hugs
Ahh,my baby!There are a lot of quotes from her I'm sure you'd love,because she's just as concerned as you about a lot of social problems and so on.I'm very happy you seem to appreciate her,too!She's been my hero for almost five years now,and seeing someone I adore,such as you,appreciating her words makes me feel all fuzzy inside.
ReplyDeleteHope your day's going well!
xx
I love the way that Laady gaga speak about bullying! She is really a shine person that brings hope to a lote of hearts, even thought it may seems freak from a lot of people.. But I hate the way that a lot of fans from her famdom doing bullying with fandom from others singers and the singers... There are stupid people everywhere, even in a place where everybody hear messages of love and respect...
ReplyDeleteHave a nice week Anette and hope your family is ok :)
If I'm reading what you wrote correctly, those people can't really be fans. I think those "fans" are just people who like her because she is so popular. If you're more popular, it's more likely that bad people notice you too.
DeleteI like lady gaga for her music and her mind ;-)
ReplyDeleteIsa Hi! I like her a lot too;=)
ReplyDeleteLucas; Hi! I don't know her fans so I can't say what I think about it, but she is a good example and talking about bullying and also about the body issues.
The dead unicorn; Hi! Yeah, I really like her and what she´s doing. She also appreciates her fans which is so nice;=)
Océane: Haha, it doesn't matter what they think, you know you are beautiful with or without any surgery;=)
Oona; Hi! yeah, I´ve read these things too and its really bad, cause the only way parents can help is if we know how our kids are treated. So I hope it changes!
The lost seafarer: Yeah, she is a great inspiration;=)
Rivka: Haha, yeah, its true, it will happen;=)
Rest calm: Everyone who stand up against bullying does a great job so good that Megan does it too;=)
Beto: Thanks;=) And yes, it will come back and even if it doesn't, we know we have lived here on this earth trying to be nice to others.
Danielle: what a crazy story! I don't understand how he can be bullied for that? Well, people are just plain evil and stupid and its so sad! And yes, I always thought like you do, that I never wanted to get any children into this world and it is frightening to send your kids out into the world knowing all the evilness and stuff going on. But at the same time, we can't give in to evilness. We need to fight it and believe in goodness, even if its hard. And karma, if it works or not, is a good way to move on and hope for better days.
I've read th story Danielle wrote about as well. It's such a sick story. That boy was very sad because he and his friend were in an accident and his friend died in his arms. His classmates told him all the time they were happy his friend died and did plays in the classroom. I can imagine you'll react depressive and angry about this. School claims they made enough efforts to stop the bullying but he has to leave school. This is college btw.
DeleteHell, what people do live in Holland? I'm very ashamed.
Hi Anette, this is the artikel Danielle wrote about. I've used google translate in Swedish so hopefully it's well written.
DeletePosted 21/11/2012 kl 08:25
Fries pesten drama efter döden vän Michi
Fries pesten drama efter döden vän Michi
Frisiska elev desperat hem efter fruktansvärda mobbning incidenter. Klasskamrater trakassera honom om trafikolycka av hans bästa vän.
Livslängden på 14-åriga skolpojke frisiska Roy och hans föräldrar hotade att bryta ner effekterna av grymma mobbning i skolan. Pojken kan inte gå tillbaka till sin gamla Havo klass eftersom han skulle ha reagerat känslomässigt till klasskamrater som ständigt trakasseras honom med döden av hans bästa vän Michi (12). Han dog förra året efter en trafikolycka i Roy armar.
"Istället för skolan om den här killen otröstlig synd och korrigerar mobbare, de hittar Roy och speciellt hans mor mycket hårt", säger Els Hendrikse stiftelsen Safe Education. Det fungerar som en medlare för familjen: "Hans skola vill ha honom konstigt kallas" en rättvis chans "erbjudande på en skola i Drachten, men inte i sin vanliga skola i sin hemstad Leeuwarden."
Mamman till de traumatiserade Havo eleverna enligt Els Hendrikse nu genom sin arbetsgivare - det obligatoriska utbildningsavdelning i kommunen Leeuwarden - rekommenderas att inte tala om fallet. "Hon är överspända hem och känner olycklig att de inte kan prata om det här problemet, observera att den egna organ inblandade."
Barndomsvän Michi kraschade på September 20, 2011 i Leeuwarden. Han och Roy satt på en cykel när de är på bron Idzerda STINS greps av en passagerare som oväntat kom över backen. Roy: "Det var en kaotisk situation. Det manageress hade oss sent. Michi fick hela bilen över honom, jag hjul på benen. "
Pojken berättar hur han kröp till offret och hans blödande sår i huvudet, försöker pålitligt. "Jag älskade Michi hand tills han dog. Den enda sak jag har hört honom kalla mitt namn var "Roy" "Efter att ha förlorat Roy själv på gatan medvetandet.
Begravning Annonser vittnen till dramat. Den medkänsla som visas i tidningen från Piter Jelles (nu Leeuwarder Lyceum), skola Michi och Roy, drag. "Om vad som följde strax efter tyst de föredrar", sade Els Hendrikse. "Bra att han är död. Om han bara hade bättre ta en titt. "Den här typen av synpunkter Roy strax efter begravningen av Michi slungade.
"Roy var i grundskolan redan vid hans hud mobbade (hans mor var född i Surinam, hans far i Marocko, ed), men något dåligt de hade aldrig kallas," sade hans advokat utbildning Katinka Slump. På gymnasiet minskat incidenter, men efter olyckan drabbade stämningen plötsligt. Med flämtar Roy förklarar hur klasskamrater en dag i närvaro av sin lärare även spelar var ökar, med våndan av Michi härmade. Roys desperat "fan, mössa här med dig!" Innebar dock hans omedelbara avlägsnande från klassrummet och sätta en utdragen konflikt i rörelse.
Styrelsens sekreterare Herman Kramer i Leeuwarder Lyceum säga sekretesskäl att sakfrågan att fortsätta. "Vi kan inga rapporter om studiedokumentation gör. Jo jag kan säga att i det här fallet inte ske över en natt och har gått här har fungerat så noggrant som möjligt. "Peter fest
Namnen på de inblandade är fiktiva av sekretesskäl.
Ooh thanks you so much Anette :')
ReplyDeleteBut for myself I do need that surgery, when you hate yourself, you cant have a look in the mirror and you forbid yourself to do differents things, then you have to do something! :)
I know many people are against surgery and think that "just a diet" is enough... But in my case, its not! :)
Anyway, many thanks for your words.
Love you!
Dear Anette, are you a fan of Lady Gaga?
ReplyDeleteShe was a few weeks ago for three concerts here in Brazil, she sings with her soul.
Kisses. Love ya.
Anette, I'm going to be completely honest with you in regards to my past in bullying. Yes, I was bullied too as a child, but in turn I bullied some kids as well. Here's the problem though, I didn't know I bullied them. Sounds strange, doesn't it? Well, let me explain. Growing up, my mother was extremely blunt with me. She would tell me right in my face that I was stupid, ugly, etc. Her excuse was that it's simply the truth. So growing up, I thought that was okay to tell others the same thing since that's how I was raised. I would be blunt to people, and then wonder why they would start crying. I didn't understand why I hurt their feelings if this is how my mother raised me.
ReplyDeleteThe moment I realized the way I was being raised was wrong was when I met my best friend. It all started when I called a young boy in middle school too short. He didn't say anything, but my best friend was there and scolded me for saying that. Believe it or not, my best friend taught me things that my mother never did. I changed as a person and never again would I say such mean things to someone. In high school, whenever I saw someone get bullied, I intervened. I can't just sit back and watch.
Even to this day, my mother would go up to her own friend and tell them, "Hey, you've gotten so much fatter!" I don't even think she realizes how destructive her words are.
Remember, people, if you ever do see someone get bullied (even to yourself) confront that person! Don't let it happen. Even if they're unaware of what they're doing like I was in the past, say something anyway. One person can make a difference.
Just being honest here. Hope you don't hate me.
Take care