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Soon we´re heading out to the city to visit dearest Hanna at Cenino and check out the new Gucci stuff she´s gotten;=) I have seen a pair of boots that would be perfect next week at my performance.
Also want to get some xmas decorations, since its soon 1st of advent and I am longing=) This year I dont feel any stress and its the first time for years, so happy days coming;=)
Enjoy your dear and read these lines a nice blogger called Sania Claus had written, which I felt were so true:
"everything happens for a reason
people change so you can learn to let them go
things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right
you believe lies so that you will eventually learn to trust no one but yourself
and sometimes, good things fall apart so better things can fall together"
(written by Sania Claus, visit her blog here: http://saniaclaus.chic.se/)
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Wow I really like those clotes black is my fav color really beautiful ^^
ReplyDeleteWell Anette, what can I say? Every time you post a picture of your outfit I think you can't possibly look any better, but then you post a new one and - hello, you do! ;=)
ReplyDeleteBlack allover looks fantastic on, it's just one of the best colours to wear and it always looks good, no matter what style or outift.
Haha, Nemo's blur in the second picture made me laugh so hard! Swoooosh and there he goes!
I'd love to have all that never-ending energy little kids seem to have...
And thanks for posting these wise words at the end, they are so true, but sometimes we need to be reminded of them. ;=)
Have a great time at the store (and if you decide to buy the boots, please post a picture of them later on ;=))!
Hugs, Sabine
PS: And if you've got a minute somewhere during your day, here's a fun little thing for you to try... And it really works! ;=)
ReplyDeletehttp://www.wikihow.com/Calculate-Your-Age-by-Chocolate
Hey dear, how are you doing?
ReplyDeleteUau, I loved your outfit, black is my color, I love it and I only use black clothes haha, the only color you can find in me is my nails and sometimes in the shoes =)..I think black is a free color, combines with everything.
About the lines, it's just the truth, is hard to let someone we love go, but sometimes it's just necessary and some years after we just realize that it was better. Living in a circle full of lies is hard too, but there's a good side because we learn how to live in this kind of situation; like one of the best songs says: sad but true ;-).
I hope you enjoy your day and buy so many beautiful things for a special date that is Christmas. I'm very happy that you are relaxed in this year.
Love, Carol
Hi, Anette!
ReplyDeleteYou are really beautiful=)Cool necklace=)
And, do you remember song, that I send to you? I wrote another one yesterday, of course in English=) Here is it)
Blood on my lips,
His corpse on the way.
Death everywhere, save yourself
Run from this satanic place.
Refrain:
Twilings lowered on the cemetery
The anty Death stroking you on shoulder
I raise my unseeing eyes to sky
To be a part of dead world
I glancing indifferent to the clothers:
It's stained by blood. So be it.
It's all the same to me. Death makes me calm, but not for a long.
Tomorrow I will go to kill again
Refrain.
I am not a vampire, not a bloodsucker
I don’t like life, but all the same live
I forgot relative faces long ago
Now I'm alone. Forever.
Refrain.
Help me, kind wanderer
Heal, take with you
I want to come back to past
Where I wasn't alone
Refrain.
Now, I am dying
Blood is flowing down on my skin
But now it's mine
Tick-tack, the heart stops beating
And now I am writing music for my first song=) Yesterday I also wrote the main theme=) I of course send you when I'll end=)
You are so cute with glasses:3 Do you have any problems with eyesight?
So waiting for your first solo perform=) We are support you in Russia=)
With Love,
Tanya;)
I really like it, but it's em... really dark xD
DeleteCan't wait to hear music for the first one :)
Oh my God,you're so pretty I want to cry.You really really look gorgeous!It's a very classy outfit,yup.
ReplyDeleteAnd arghhh,that pic with Nemo's little blurred figure is the best thing I've seen all week,because:1.Nemo's just too cute,2.that pose looks just like the ones you used to do while on stage,and it just gives me a lot of feelings.
I'm so happy to see you're already excited for Christmas!For me,this holiday lost its magic some time ago,and it's actually quite sad.
Hope your day's going on well!
xx
Perfect outfit
ReplyDeleteI love black!!
=)
You're so beautiful. And Nemo is so funny hehe. ;-)
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad that you are stress free! That's awesome and I really hope things continue to go well. Actually,I know things will keep going well because you're such an amazing person and are so nice and caring. You're not like anyone else i've ever met... no matter what people have to say you keep a smile on your face and stay strong,and that's what I admire the most about you because I know that can't be easy. Lots of love and hugs and enjoy your day!
Hey!
ReplyDeleteI REALLY love this outfit! And black is my favorite color ;)
I asked thispair of shoes for Xmas to my mum :
http://cgi.ebay.fr/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?VISuperSize&item=130802389008
Black and studs/spikes: best combination ever to me! =)
Maybe you don't like it, which I would understand as they are maybe... strange? But I wanted them since 1 year =)
You talk about boots, and I remember a pair of boots you had on stage, Willow boot, something like that!Do you still wear it ?
Here a photo : http://img171.imageshack.us/img171/4332/338209graspop0265.jpg
And is my favorite outfit =)
And talking about little Nemo, you said he sings sometimes. Would you do a video (where we don't see his face of course) so we can hear him singing? It would be SOOOOOOO cute! =)
You could even do a duet ! Ahaha =)
Enjoy this day & I hope you'll find what you want in Gucci!
Love and many many Hugs
Just realised my first link is not working!
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http://img694.imageshack.us/img694/8546/kgrhqfhjdmfblipguibqegp.jpg
U look so pretty as usual. I love black. That salad looks good:) And yes...everything does happen 4 a reason...People change and turn on us so we can let them go and find better people to surround ourselves with. Lies...this world is full of them...I'm pretty careful with who I trust...if anyone...so many people have Lauren's on me/backstabbed me that I pretty much don't trust anyone except for God. And good things do fall apart so better things can come together. Even in this messed up world there is always something better. I also think that it's better to just live a happy positive life instead of fearing the evil in the world bc there is nothing u can do about it...just be a happy person and u will enjoy your life much more! Have an awesome day <3
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, dear Anette! ;-)
ReplyDeleteYou are so pretty and beautiful today! Thanks for photos =)
Enjoy your day! Hope you will find perfect boots ;=)
With love,
Margarita
I'm watching this video now...and only just to say : YOU ARE SO AMAZING!
ReplyDeletehaha...i'm crazy ;=)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&feature=endscreen&v=cML3juTNPHs
Hello dear,
ReplyDeleteYou look great! And yes, lunch looks great! =D
Have a good time!
Of course, I'd love to see the boots.
Xxx
you look nice today ! <3
ReplyDeleteThis is my absolute fovorit outfit until now! I love black and this studded neck is soo beautiful! :)You again look simply wonderful...
ReplyDeleteAnd that post by Sania Claus is really great, too. It reminds me of some problems and situations of my life I'm still in, since some months and years. Difficulties to let go and to find fulfillment for my own, independent from anyone else.
But those are helpful lines, thank you for sharing!
Warm regards,
Daniel
Hey sweetie!
ReplyDeleteNice clothes, I love black clothes! :)
I'm glad that you are still updating the blog and the fans can still follow you somehow.
I'm curious about something: I follow a brazilian forum about you and your ex band and of course, all the fans still don't know what really happened, the real reasons that you are not in the band anymore (which probably we'll never know because they are personal) but do you think or thought about a press conference to make the things a bit clearer?
I wish you all the best! Your true fans will keep on following you! ;)
Hi dear Nettie, how are you?
ReplyDeleteYou look really adorable, especially on the third picture!
And about the words that Sania wrote...I couldn't agree more. They are so true!
Wish you a lovely day
Big hugs
Ena :*
Hi Anette !
ReplyDeleteI like the black too and I like your outfit today ;-)
Love
Isa
I love it! It look so awsome to you! Why was Nemo running around? haha
ReplyDeleteBut yeah I did realy bad to myself again. I'd not realy cut but I still did hurt myself.
I know it is realy bad for me..
I'm so fucking sorry I did this again! I felt realy bad afterwards but I had to erase the pain out of my brain.
I hope you can help me to stop myself because I can't stop myself and I don't want professionals to help me(I don't believe them)
xoxo
I believe that the fact that you want to stop is already a big step!Now all you have to do is finding another way to express your pain.I know,it sounds easy,right?But I bet you know how hard it is.Why don't you go out for a walk?Or,if you have any pets,play with them?Or read,study,scream,cry,destroy things.Anything.But stay away from things that can hurt you.You're worth much more than that,and you deserve better.
DeleteI know these methods sound silly,but I can't tell you how many times I've just run away with my dog for a few hours,because I felt like I'd hang myself id I stayed home,and how much that helped me.I'm pretty positive my dog has saved me more than once,as childish as it sounds.
I wish you the best,you're strong enough to overcome this!I believe in you.<3
Have a nice day,
xx
Far as I understand, you´re cutting?
DeleteI´ve been where you are. I was told that when I felt the pressure, I should take a hair tie or something like, put it around my wrist and let it snap my skin. It hurts, it makes the pressure go away without cutting.
They also told me to take a cooling pillow and press my arm against it instead of cutting, or let cold water run over my arms. Taking a shower often helps, too.
This things are cold "Coping skills self harming", I think. I´ve found a website that sounds as if it could help you:
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/self_injury.htm
Have a look at it, maybe it helps. There are more skills listed than I can remember right now.
I wish you the best!
Love, Betty
AAAAAAAAHHH
ReplyDeleteSO TASTY!!!
Awesome lunch!
And this dress is great too! Nice to see you in a good mood!
could you look anymore adorable? :D <3
ReplyDeleteapples and cider in..a salad?? seems strange to british taste..but it's something new to try. like cheese in a tube. I'll try find a site i can import from. the british/american is nicknamed plastic cheese cause it does taste like plastic and not cheese. :/
Hey Anette,
ReplyDeletethe black color suits you very well - I like the colour black. Wow I like this beautiful bluse.
You look great.
haha, Nemo also wanted to be in the picture. As his Mom so doing a great pose, why not? But of course it is very natural that he should not show up on an image to the public. I understand very well as you can. Who actually makes the always great photos of you? I know sometimes you do it yourself, but the photos from today? If you stand so in a pose? Self-timer from the camara?
I wish you a wonderful evening.
hugs
Hi Anette,
ReplyDeleteI'm loving the headband! I adore how you manage to look so full of energy even in those grey late autumn days.:)
The salad looks supertasty, bad I myself need something warm for my belly, now that the days have gotten darker and colder. :)
And I've missed your recipes! I try some now and than and it's always tasty and quick, so I would be happy to some more of those here someday ;)
Great quote too, and it's much needed to follow things like that, especially right now when troubles are piling up and crumbling down on me a little. "Always look on the bright side of life." right? :)
Hope you and your boys are doing great,
lots of hugs and positive energy,
Marcela :)
Beautiful outfit, Anette. Fell very well for you!
ReplyDeleteAnd I loved your hear band :3
That's Marilyn Monroe who has written that first btw! ;)
ReplyDeletewaw, elegant lady in black :-) and meat balls looks delicious - can you got to us recipe? thanks! have a nice evening :-)
ReplyDeleteI like your black outfit :-) Clothes in black are my favorites. I very often wear black clothes.
ReplyDeleteThe salad looks so tasty.
And little Nemo as a little shadow - so cute.
Have a nice evening.
Kylie
Hi Anette!
ReplyDeleteToday I did a blood test. Luckily they took only 2 vials of my blood, because after that I had to walk a lot. I had some things to fix so I did almost all today. Now I have relax time at home and in two hours I have volleyball practice. I hope I'll resist, because when I'll return at home I must call my friend via Skype. She's away and I need to talk with her.
Anyway you have a great outfit today ;)And I must say that every time I see your beautiful eyes I fall in love :)
Enjoy your evening!
Take care!
Hello, Anette!
ReplyDeleteI was wondering if you could help me with a little problem I have...
You see, I'm playing bass in a band and we have our biggest gig yet coming up tomorrow. I think we should include backing vocals in our performance and I would love to ding them. But despite this, I'm incredibly nervous about singing in front of a crowd :( Do you have any tips that may help conquer my nerves?
Also, I really love the outfit! Very nice. I like the hair band and ear rings ;-)
Enjoy your day :-)
Cathal in Ireland
hi anette, you look very beautiful. specially on the third photo i would like to give you a big huuug;). yesterday i ate meat balls too in the ikea before we went to the sonata arctica concert (ikea was next to the hall). was a funny evening. i hope you had a nice evening too.
ReplyDeleteYou look relly really good Anette!
ReplyDeleteI love black too. To choose this color is never wrong lol
Greetings and hugs,
Jade
Jade: Hi and thanks;=) Black is a great color!
ReplyDeleteMigi: IKEA has some great meat balls=) And Sonata is always great to listen too=)
Cathal: Hi and thanks;=) Well, just don't look at the people, if you are nervous. Concentrate on what you are singing and choose a spot over the heads of the audience, so it looks like you are looking at them, even if you arent=) Good luck!
This is very helpful! Thank you ever so much! :-)
DeleteBeautiful ;-)
ReplyDeleteBlack is great, I love it ^^ And I found out that people don´t care if you break rules as long as you wear black. The black clothes are my amour plates, they protect me, everybody thinks I am friends with the Antifa (although I´m not, not that I would say this aloud) so they leave me alone even at night ^^
Oh, christmas... *sigh* Be aware, I´m gonna celebrate christmas in my and your blog if I cannot make my mother celebrate it with the family ;-)
Have a good evening!
Love, Betty
Hi Anette :)
ReplyDeleteIf You don't remember I'm the girl whose boyfriend left her for working in London. I just want to thank You for Your kind words and I have to agree that now when he is away I feel also as You like half a person. I think that hardest time we have now cause he has big trouble with internet now so since Saturday we only talked twice via Facebook when he was at Westfield (biggest shopping center in London, I'm sure that You would have loved this). But still better than Sunday and Monday when I had no idea what was goinng on with him. Very hard time but now I know that it will be better :)
Sabina
Hi Anette :)
ReplyDeleteI love all your photos, you look so happy :D
Even in black clothes you can shine hahaha :D
I wonder what are you going to wear next week on performance, hope to see it on blog :D
Funny thing is, whatever I want to ask you or I think of, next day you have the same thoughts and post it here ;)
Enjoy your evening, sending hugs especially to Nemo ;)
Renata
Ahhh, full black outfits, my one great weakness. Looks really good on you!
ReplyDeleteAs I'm really hoping to see you live again, I can't help but wonder, can we expect to see you touring around at least a little bit in the future? And will you be singing some Nightwish songs too on your concerts?
I just watched some older videos of you performing with orchestra, and I really liked them. I wish I could be there.
Also, thanks for the advice on dealing with stage fright you gave up there. I'm usually quite confident but I completely lose it if I have to sing, and it might help me one day too. Thanks :)
Hug your boys for me, and have a good evening ;)
Food. Again. Give me your food. Please? :(
ReplyDeleteLovely outfit! Oh and I thought it was falafel instead of meat balls!
ReplyDeleteHi Nettie :D
ReplyDeleteOh, black clothes are surely the best ones... It's my favourite colour as well. The black clothes just fit with everything, and I think that the black clothes just look better in me... hahaha
You have really nice clothes, Nettie. I never saw you in a bad or ugly clothe -- they're all really wonderful and so cool! You really have a good taste for clothes.. hahaha
Oh, and I also ate meat balls today at lunch! But, unfortunately I still can't eat such a "healthy" meal like you do... Actually, I had a big plate of rice, bean, meat balls and fried bananas.. Not exactly a healthy meal, but.... one day I'll achieve the hard task of eating more nutritional foods.. (yn) haha
Have a great night, and sweet dreams!
Love,
André.
Hi Anette!
ReplyDeleteNice outfit, black always is better!hahaha Nemo is a little boy with a lot of energy!
Your meal looks so delicious, right now I'm eating "chapulines"(roasted grasshoppers), and they have a lot of proteins, vitamins and minerals and even if they have a weird appearance the taste is great!
Bye the way, the lines by Sania Claus are so true!
Have a nice evening!
I love your smile ;)
ReplyDeleteOskar: Hi and thanks;=)
ReplyDeleteJuly: Hi! Oh, wow! Grasshoppers? I´ve never tried that;=) But I am sure they are good;=)
André: Hi! As long as you enjoyed the food, healthy or not, doesn't matter;=)
Oona; haha, no, just meat balls;=)
Sid: Hi and yeah, have some;=)
Simona; Hi and thanks=) When it comes to touring and what I will do, I don't know, but if i tour it won't be any long tours and i think I want to stay close to my home for some time;=) I am quite happy with not having to travel all the time and the last years have been so hectic that I just want to enjoy Sweden for a while until I decide on these things;=)
Rainy; Hi! Nice coincidence that we think of the same things then=) And I have a long black dress I will wear and maybe I´ll change for the second performance. Let´s see=)
Sabina; Hi! yes, i remember you;=) Great that you got in touch at least those times and I am sure you will be able to talk more in the future;=) Maybe write some emails and letter also? Sending photos to each other and lots of nice love messages always helps me when we are apart;=)
Betty; Hi! You are welcome to celebrate x-mas in my blog;=) I´ll be here!
DarkQueen; Hi and good they saved some blood for yourself;=) Volleyball is a fun sport and I loved that in school;=) And thanks for the compliment;=)
Kylie! Hi and thanks=) Black is a great color, always;=)
Radoslava; Hi! The meat balls are actually bought ready, so very easy recipe. Buy and heat them up;=) Good for fast lunches or dinners=)
Yuzuki; Oh, was it Marilyn? even better, since I think she was wonderful=) thanks for telling me;=)
Carol: Thanks so much;=)
Marcela: Hi and thanks=) I´ll fix some more recipes then;=) And yeah, I try to be positive, better than being negative;=) And I do believe we live longer if we are happy!
ReplyDeleteGitte; Hi and thanks=) I use Photo Booth, a programme on my McIntosh and its perfect cause it gives me 3 seconds and then- click=)
Debs; Hi and thanks=) yeah, I like to use fruit in my salad. Its my mum who has taught me that;=) And we have cheese in a tube too and I like it:;=)
Streame; Hi and thanks;=)
Sabine; hi! I know and understand your anxiety, I do. I´ve been there. And the only thing you can do is to accept the anxiety and try to do something else to get it away. Not self-destruct, cause that is not the solution. Meet the anxiety, let it come out. Cry, scream, sing, listen to music, take a walk, take a shower, call a friend, dance and so on. Try and find something that can make you pass the anxiety without harming yourself. And if you fail now and then, don't judge yourself so hard, just be happy for the times you can go against it and take one small step at a time and try to think about WHY you get the anxiety attacks. If its the kids in school, talk to your parents or a teacher and try to make things better for you. If its something else, try and find out what. Its always easier to get anxiety go away by understanding why we get it and to try and make someone help us when we get it. I hope you understand what I mean and can try and help yourself, if you don't want to seek help from a professional. Lots of hugs!
Isa; Hi and thanks=)
ReplyDeleteEna; Hi and thanks;=) yeah, I really liked them and even my best friend called today and had read them and felt it was so true;=)
Myla;: Hi and thanks;=) I will tell it all at one point, but when I haven't decided yet. Take care and say hi to Brazil from me;=)
Daniel; hi and thanks;=) And yeah, I think we are many who recognize us in her words and its really good words and also the thing to trust yourself only first, is one I try to live after.
Laura; Hi and thanks=)
Elize:; Hi and thanks;=) the boots were so nice but not so comfortable so I didn't get them. But here´s a photo of them; http://www.gucci.com/se/styles/296265C04101000#
Margarita; hi and thanks=) And no, you´re not crazy;=) Sleep well!
Rivka: Hi and true words you are saying. i also have problems with trust and that is because so many have lied and stabbed me in the back. But still, I want to go into life and hoping people mean well, cause if not, life would be a really boring place to live;=)
Océane; Hi dear! I couldn't get the photo of the boots up;=( Send it again! And I haven't used the willow boots for some years. They take forever to lace up...puh! And yeah, lets see if he wants to sing for you one day;=)
Your welcome dear sleep well and sweat dreams
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Isa
"Sweat" ca veut dire "transpirer"! Lol! Du coup ta phrase est un peu bizarre :p
Delete"Sweet" c'est mieux :p
Oops desole merci jai taper trop vite ^^
DeleteLovely as always!
DeleteThank you dear, I'll be waiting for it!
Take care of yourself and I wish you all the best!
Yeah I realised 10 min ago my link is not working!
ReplyDeleteThere you go :
http://img694.imageshack.us/img694/8546/kgrhqfhjdmfblipguibqegp.jpg
Yes the first time I saw your boots I thought "Oh gosh, she needs an hour to lace up!" but they are amazing! Love them so much!
And for Nemo, tell him "its for Océane" and I'm sure he'll sing =) ahah!
Love and Hugs
Dear Anette,
ReplyDeleteIt pleases me to see that you are still actively writing weblog entries. You seem to be doing well, nice! :-)
You might like to hear that the Dutch government is currently actively debating bullying. The reason behind their active debates is very unfortunate though, namely the suicide of a 20-year-old male victim of bullying.
With regard to the 'everything happens for a reason' part, could you please tell me why I am in the situation I am currently in? Only two months ago I started my greatest adventure so far, a study abroad period in another country, only to receive a phone call from the police of my home country a week and a half ago with the tragic news that my mum has passed away. Cause: natural death. Age: 51. I am now back in my home country and all on my own with no other family. Literally no other family. I am 21 years old, lost my mum and have now no one on earth who truly loves me no matter what. What could be the reason behind these recent massive life changing events? It turned my world completely upside down.
Anyway, you look great in your black outfit and your accessories go very well with it. Enjoy your upcoming happy days! :-)
Regards,
Danique
The Netherlands
I'm so sorry for your loss. As for why you're in that tragic situation, people die all the time. Young or old, death has no boundaries. Life goes on. Perhaps different opportunities will come where you can meet new people that will love you very much.
DeleteSometimes in the most dramatic situations do people figure out who they really are as an individual.
Don't worry, it's not the end of the world. Life has its ups and downs all the time. I hope you feel better soon.
Best Regards
Brianna; Hi and thanks for such kind words;=) I believe life is to short to go around being sad and miserable for a long time, so I try to get up on my knees as fast as I can after every "blow" life throws at me and I believe life is to short to spend it on to much negativity. And my kids help me seeing life so positive too;=
ReplyDeleteRenan; Hi and thanks;=)
The dead unicorn: Thanks so much;=) i understand the x-mas thing, I havent loved x-mas for a long time, but this year feels different and I long for it=)
Tanya; Hi! I like it, dark and bloody;=) Since I love vampires and those things, I like it;=) And I see bad up close so need glasses by the computer and reading.
Carol: Hi and thanks=) yeah , black is a great color!
Sabine; Hi and thanks?= I´ll try the chocolate thing one day=)
Robert; Hi and thanks;=) Black is the best color always;=)
Hi Anette :)
ReplyDeleteI want to thanks you about the song you send, it was really nice :)
I'm sorry to say, but I think I cant smile anymore. Whole week I have trieing to not cry :( I cant anymore. For year, i have been really sad. And this year has been so baaaaaad! And this and next week are horrible. This week i have done some stupid bible thing. Every day. And next week i have 6 tests. 6!
Evening dear!
ReplyDeletelove all the pics and OFC lovely outfit as always , you look absolutely stunning in the second picture =) you have such beautiful eyes!! i'm looking forward to see your outfit for the big event and also to hear and somehow see you, you have no idea how much i miss your voice and your stage presence, you're great!
your plate look so healthy and i love everything there but unfortunely i can't eat a meal without rice =( i think i might be japanese inside or something coz if i could i would eat just rice haha
Have a good night and sweet dreams to you and the boys!
And a very good night for you :
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That was in Wien!
Sleep well, sweet dream and maybe a long sleep tomorrow morning? I will!!
Love & Hugs
Hello Anette!
ReplyDeleteI love how each day you have a coordinated outfit on. Unless I have a big plan for the day, I am usually wearing only jeans and a T-shirt with minimal make up and my favorite necklace. You present yourself to the world in a very wonderful way. I am looking forward to seeing your upcoming performance!
Enjoy the coming weekend,
Love and Hugs,
Caitlin
lovely dress, and love that earring/earcuff....
ReplyDeleteIf You Love Rice, MUST come to mexico, or visit my grandma on texas, she loves to cook rice with something each day..........
By the way HAPPY MUSICIAN DAY!!!! today in mexico we celebrate the musicians!! :)
Hi Anette!!! Just wanted to say how much I love you and admire you! I have so much respect for you because you are a nice, good, kind, honest, real person and believe it or not, you always give me the strenght to keep going. I have suffered from anorexia and bulimia since I was 12 years old, I am 21 now and I almost comitted suicide about 2 months ago. I was convinced that death was the only way out of this hell.By reading your blog,I have a better, positive outlook on life and I reached out for help and getting therapy/meds and I am a much happier, optimistic person. I'm so proud of the progress I made in just 2 months and well, I'm telling you this because your caring personality made me realize that there IS good people out there, and that makes me feel a lot better! Thank you so much for doing what you are doing and may god bless you, Anette. I'm tearing up now, so I gotta go, haha. Take care and much love and respect.
ReplyDeleteI really love your outfit!!!
ReplyDeleteAlexandra; Hi and thanks;=)
ReplyDeleteJenC: Hi and wow, its so nice to hear your improvement in these 2 months! I know its a hard way to come back from, but I also know you can make it:=) And yes, the world DO have nice people living in it also;=) Death is never the way out! You are to special and needed in this world;=) Everyone on this earth has its own purpose and even if we don't know what, we do. So if you stay here, I know you will have an impact on people and especially from your eating disorder, you can help others who suffers the same, when you are older. So I´m so so happy you are improving and don't give up even if you have a bad day or a relapse, cause it takes time to change the ways you have lived life for so many years, but you will be fine if you fight;=) Lots of strengthening hugs!
Domenik: Hi and thanks=) Musicians day sounds nice;=)
Caitlin: Hi and thanks=) Also, the autumn weather makes it easier than if it would be summer here, cause then I also just use a t-shirt and jeans, but now I can war layers and stuff and thats more fun;=)
Océane; hi and thanks;=) Nemo loves to watch the photos of daddy;=) So he got happy here this morning. And yeah, luckily me and Nemo loves sleeping long so we did, until 9.18=) Have a great day!
Karoline; Hi! Rice is good but if you add, like I do, cheese to the salad it gives protein and helps to get fuller without rice;=)
Mynta; Hi! I am so sorry its a bad time for you=( We always have those days and also years where everything just goes bad for us. But it will change, so look forward to 2013 and that year will surely be a better one=)
Danique, Hi! And oh, I am so sorry to hear your tragic story;=( Well, I don't know why this happened to you and I think its really sad and way to early for you to be all alone and loose your young mother;=( To be all alone is really frightening and hard and I am so sad for you. Don't you have any other family, like aunts and cousins you can get support from? do you have any friends that can give you support? Can you go back to the studies in the other country and concentrate on that instead of staying back home? And can you go and get some help from a therapist to get some help with your sorrow and talk about the future and how to overcome this tragic that happened to you?
I believe in God, but of course I also sometimes think: Why did this happen if there is a God? And there´s just no good explanation more than that we all have a purpose in life and some die young and some live longer and I am not sure why this is how it is, but the circle of life is like that. But being the child left behind, like you, I understand that you think about why this happened and I can't tell you why, cause I also think its just so sad and tragic and WAY to early to loose your mother;=( I really hope you have someone who can help you to grieve and hug you and give you the love you need now. I send all of my love and hugs to you and I really wish that you will get some help in this hard situation!
Océnane: Hi! the boots are "mean"=) But they would be really cool on you;=) And yeah, I´ll tell Nemo that;=)
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things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right
you believe lies so that you will eventually learn to trust no one but yourself
and sometimes, good things fall apart so better things can fall together
.... this is a saying by Marilyn Monroe Anette x
Gorgeous outfit! You look lovely :)
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