Saturday, 12 March 2011

What was bad can be good;=)

So I am lying here resting and the boys are out with the pram doing some city shopping. Lucky them to be able to be out but actually I dont feel strong enough so then its just fine to lie here;=)

I must say that falling and breaking my rib was horrible and I dont ever wanna break anything again cause its so painful and horrible.

BUT in the dark there are some really light things that have come my way since it happened. Family and friends all have been so extremely nice and kind and supportive and helped me and the boys to work this period out in such a good way.

I have gotten so much love sent my way and I really think I needed to feel that. I am a person who rush through life and that make me not so good at seeing everything and feeling everyone. But now when this happened I had to stop, lie down and depend on others to get me through and I just feel how much love I get;=)

So even if it sucks to lie here I get by easier just because of all the love I get from everyone at the moment. I will try and remember that when I am up being all stressed again;=)

21 comments:

  1. Good afternoon Anette!
    I hope you'll feel better soon. Rest, watch some nice movies, eat semlor and enjoy your day!
    xxx

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  2. Hi Anette,
    So glad to hear that you are feeling a little better and getting around...Try not to overdue it!! :) It is very difficult when you are independent and want to still do everything...
    It is wonderful that you can make a positive out of bad. It's not easy to do...
    I have had situations that have happened and always take a look after and realize why it happened that way.
    And remember you receive all this love because you give so much too!!!
    I hope the sun is shining for you today...it is finally out here in Maine...Spring is on the way!!
    Take care and have a restful day of healing!!!

    Christine

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  3. Hello, Anette.
    I were very concerned when I heard about your horrible accident :(

    I send you all my love and I hope that you'll be fine.:) Remember, my little Nettan, you are never alone with your pain, we, your fans are forever with you. ;)

    With love,
    Isabella

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  4. Anette

    It warms my heart to read some positive words. In addition to friends and family, you will always have our support also.
    It may seem distant and less real support then people around you, but we are here non the less with kind words to put a smile on your face.
    Sometimes we move so fast and concentrate on work and other things that we miss the important stuff around us and don't slow down enough to enjoy it.
    I know I do that myself. I work through the day then I come home and I admin the website for the same amount of full time hours (30-40 a week) through the evening, retiring for bed around 2am everynight.
    I do not have any social time and only recently when Ethan has been ill, have I realised how quickly time has gone by. He turns 18 months soon and I'm shocked by it.
    I've vowed to make sure I'm the one who baths and plays with him before his bedtime, only then will I sit in my office and work online.
    Don't get me wrong I am not complaining, simply agreeing with your moving through life too fast comment.
    All I want now is to make sure the projects in planning go smooth, then less stress- which means less time working :)

    Are you staying at someone's home in Finland or a hotel?
    Just asking to see if it's someones home in particular whether or not it's likely to spy for my Christmas gift idea, or if I need to find another way.

    You take care, while the boys are out have a nice bubble bath with some candles and some chocolate... I could do with that :)

    Big Hugs
    Carol x

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  5. Anette, can you walk a bit (only in house) or are you in bed and in the couch?

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  6. hope you get totally fine soon, and the pain disappear :)

    Kisses
    Andreli

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  7. Good Morning Anette,

    Thank you for sharing these thoughts, they are quite touching. I am so glad that you find yourself surrounded by love and support, for you certainly deserve it. It is truly a beautiful gift to be able to always see the good in the bad, and by having such a gift you not only make yourself happier and healthier, but you also spread positive energy for those around you. And many seriously underestimate how important this is. It sounds as though you do have a very kind neighbor next door, and I am so happy to hear that, and that they brought you some homemade buns, that was very thoughtful, and it’s funny how those little things can be such key moral boosters. It also seems that you found a nice site for those baking items, I hope they work well for you.

    Well, I pray you continue to recovery quickly and rest well, and I am so glad that you do seem to be feeling a bit better now.

    With much love and warm wishes,
    Alexstrasz

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  8. Hello Anette !!
    I hope the boys have a good time =D
    Im sure that a broken rib is horrible,for me,i already broke my head twice,i know that is horrible,but nothing compared to broken ribs,they must be very painful !!
    But you support the pain like a strong lady !!
    Im glad that you now understand that you receive lots of love,there's a reason to all of that !
    You receive love because you give hapiness to us,you have no idea how great is to know a person like you,you give to us soo much love and hapiness =D
    You are an angel,a godess or an idol to most of us,you are a great singer.I never meet you,but there's something in you that makes me think that you are an amazing woman :D
    Thank you for everything,a rare person like you deserve love :)
    I rather give love than hate,because love is a good thing,for me you have to love to hate. And i dont hate,i diskile.
    But you deserve hapiness :D
    I hope you are better,we wish you all the best !!
    Kisses and Hugs from Portugal
    Liliana

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  9. Hello Anette!
    I'm very happy that you're a positive person. They say that this type of person heals before the negative people. I believe it;) In the past I have broken a finger, so I can understand the pain you feel now.
    But always remember that you'll never be alone, cause your family and all of us who are your fans will always be with you.
    Today I took a walk by the sea with my best friend. When I got home I felt much better. I enjoyed this walk for you too, cause I know that you like to walk near the sea and in the forest.
    For now, try to rest as you can and get well soon!
    Kisses,hugs and love!

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  10. Hey Anette Have you seen the news about Japan its sooo awful?? :(

    I wanted to tell you that my bf bought me a kettlebell today & i can feel it on my arms straight away!

    Thanks for your lovely touching post about how you have discovered all the love and care you get...you deserve every little bit of it after all you always listen to us and our problems.. give us advice too & its amazing since most of us will probably never meet you in this life time....that you have given so much on this blog, I dont know any other artist that does this...its amazing of you & you have such a great positive attitude! Hope you enjoyed your little cream cakes!

    btw My Mom is an opera fanatic but she loves your voice she has played some youtube videos of "Amaranth & Bye Bye" She said i really like this girls voice its a good strong voice for this music!!!

    bye for now

    xxx

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  11. Hi!
    It's nice see you thinking good things while you are rest.
    I hope you get better!
    Letícia Monique

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  12. Oh yes, falling and breaking a rib is so horrible. Especially considering that elsewhere in the world, atomatic power plants are blowing up and horrible earthquakes occured. If you didn't spend the last few days living in a hole, you know what I'm talking about. Don't you think you lack a bit of compassion if you piss and moan and whine about a stupid broken rib while elsewhere, people are losing everything? For many people, you're some sort of role model, so show some class and sympathy and stop whining about something so insignificant.

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  13. Hej Anette :)

    Sorry, I couldn't comment for some time.. Little internet problem.. But I've read all your posts on my Mobile Internet..

    About your broken rib - I hope you feel better now! It was very bad fall :/ I've never broken anything and i hope I won't :/

    And your car.. I really don't understand people that others misfortune makes happy -.-' I'd like to see their face if the same thing happens to them!

    And yeah... My price from you came last week.. Poster and your picture on Friday, and hoodie on Monday next week (actually this week XD) It's really great and beautiful - the poster, picture and hoodie.. I love it so so much! It's so damn beautiful :D
    Thank you :)


    Have a nice day and take care! ♥

    Nives from Croatia

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  14. I wish you a speedy recovery!)

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  15. HI Anette,

    Speedy recovery to you!
    You tryly are a remarkable woman to be able to see the good in even a bad thing. I admire you, you are an inspiration. And yes, you are loved! You are very lucky to have close people who love you and are there for you. But do also remember us people in the distance who send you warm thoughs and our love.

    I know you are a tough cookie, but now it is time for you to lay still until you feel better. Don't push it too much to risk your getting well.

    Hugs and all the best to you and all the boys!

    Br,
    Ua

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  16. Great to see that you can think positive and be grateful by the love of the ones who are close to you and also your fans. I'm sure you will get well pretty soon thinking like that. It makes all the difference! Take care. Kiss, Rute

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  17. Did you watch the Sweden's Eurovision Song Contest (Melodifestivalen) today on tv? I watched it here in Finland. I didn't see all the performances but I think your contest was so much better musically than ours (the finnish one).

    Even though you broke your rib you still can find something positive from this situation. I would probably just get depressed not being able to move and do things as normal.

    You keep up that positiveness! :)

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  18. Hi Anette!

    Hope you feel better today.

    You might find interesting things for Nemo in here: http://www.imaginarium.info/

    I think they have different but great things for children.

    Kisses!

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  19. hello anette,glad to hear that you are more better!
    omg,what happens in japan?!it is terrible!19 march will be worst day ever in earth history!omg,omg,omg!i am not afraid about my future,but i am afraid about my lovely family,friends,neighbours and of course you!
    love you and hope everything will be allright!

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  20. Get well, Anette! We miss you.:)

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  21. Anette,

    You're kinda someone who does so much for others that you don't stop all the time and have a moment to yourself...Maybe this was a sign that said "Lady! Take a break for awhile! You've done enough already!"
    Never the less, I hope you get better soon! :D

    Take care,
    *~*Kerry*~*

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